Having been married for three years, I’ve found out already that you have to work to keep things fresh in the bedroom. It’s not just about technique — although new moves go a long way — it’s also about setting the mood before you get down to business. Candles, music… and of course some sexy lingerie. In fact, wearing more-than-just-functional underwear has become a bit of a fashion trend in recent years. If you have never bought lingerie to please your man before, like me until a few months ago, then here are a few tips to get you started.